What It Used to Be Like by Maryann Burk Carver
A Portrait of My Marriage to Raymond Carver

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Maryann Burk Carver met Raymond Carver in 1955, when she was fifteen years old and he was seventeen. In What It Used to Be Like, she recounts a tale of love at first sight in which two teenagers got to know each other by sharing a two-year long-distance correspondence that soon after found them married and with two small children. Over the next twenty-five years, as Carver's fame grew, the family led a nomadic life, moving from school to school and teaching post to teaching post. In 1972, they settled in Cupertino, California, where Raymond Carver gave his wife one of his sharpened pencils and asked her to write an account of their history. The result is a memoir of a marriage, replete with an intimacy of detail that fully reveals the talents and failings of this larger-than-life man, his complicated relationships, and his profound loves and losses. What It Used to Be Like brings to light for the first time Raymond Carver's lost years and the "stories behind the stories" of this brilliant writer.

About Maryann Burk Carver

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MARYANN BURK CARVER is a teacher living on Lummi Island in Washington State.
Published July 11, 2006 by St. Martin's Press. 368 pages
Genres: Biographies & Memoirs. Non-fiction

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A bittersweet account of the author's hardscrabble life with her husband, the writer Raymond Carver.

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Raymond Carver’s first wife describes a marriage full of the raw material of his stories.

Sep 24 2006 | Read Full Review of What It Used to Be Like: A Po...

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