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Anne Tyler gives us a wise, haunting, and deeply moving new novel in which she explores how a middle-aged man, ripped apart by the death of his wife, is gradually restored by her frequent appearances-in their house, on the roadway, in the market. Crippled in his right arm and leg, Aaron spent his childhood fending off a sister who wants to manage him. So when he meets Dorothy, a plain, outspoken, self-dependent young woman, she is like a breath of fresh air.... more
...The Beginner's Goodbye – a small first step in the long process of recovery from the death of a spouse – is artistically subtle and emotionally satisfying despite its lightness.
Full ReviewThis palliates his pain and makes an acute and amusing novel seem bogus. Tyler has become an unthinking man’s Alice Munro.
Full ReviewMy only complaint? At 198 pages and with fairly big type, I would have loved it to be longer. But maybe I'm just saying that I didn't want it to end. Which is also a fairly common Tyler thing.
Full ReviewThis is no gothic ghost story nor chronicle of a man unraveling in his grief, but rather an uplifting tale of love and forgiveness.
Full ReviewIt’s a trite and predictable lesson from what is arguably this talented author’s tritest and most predictable novel.
Full ReviewCall me heartless, but I found Aaron’s suffering too muted to make his resurrection cathartic or even credible.
Full ReviewIt's classic Tyler...with characters who have dug themselves so deep into their emotional caves that they don't realize how small the space is, and dark, until an avalanche removes the back wall.
Full ReviewDespite the emotional weight of her subject matter, she treats it with a delicate hand, building the story not with melodrama but with quotidian details that ring true...
Full ReviewBut for all its grace notes, the novel is too slight and uneven to survive its final pages, when Tyler wraps everything up too neatly. She diminishes the best parts of her book...
Full ReviewTyler’s simple, straightforward narrative style keeps her story from ever becoming maudlin
Full ReviewIt is cozy to the point of bafflement. It is as if we are stuck in a time warp.
Full ReviewTyler, widowed in 1995, has allowed enough time to pass to write successfully about loss and recovery without being pedantic or mawkish in doing so.
Full Review...The Beginner's Goodbye felt unfinished and unrealized, and worse, a retread.
Full Review...isn’t as hard to fathom as how Aaron escaped from Noel Coward’s “Blithe Spirit.” Even die-hard fans of Tyler’s work should probably let this one float by.
Full ReviewI would call it minimalist were it not for the thump of magical realism. . .
Full ReviewFans of Tyler’s work will find THE BEGINNER’S GOODBYE to be a slight departure from her previous offerings, but a pleasant addition to her long list of popular novels.
Full ReviewAaron is Tyler's beginner, a man crippled in more ways than one. But her portrayal of his pain and clumsy resilience is beautifully intricate.
Full ReviewThe effect of the book's restricted canvas is to sacrifice the comic ebullience of such novels as The Accidental Tourist or A Patchwork Planet to a quieter realism, in a carefully observed study of grief...
Full ReviewThis glimpse into personal loss limned with an unexpectedly bright future will be welcomed by Tyler's many admirers.
Full ReviewIndeed, the title is perfect. This is a guide to mourning and letting go, and a far better one than poor Woolcott Publishing could ever produce.
Full ReviewNow comes No. 19, "The Beginner's Goodbye," a novel no less riveting and engaging than those that preceded it.
Full ReviewBut Tyler, with subtlety and compassion, leaves that issue to the reader, and in so doing examines the eternal issues of sorrow and loss — and life's blessings.
Full ReviewNot really a great sign when the cover blurb's better than the book.
Full Review“The Beginner's Goodbye” isn't up there with, say, “Saint Maybe,” still my favorite of her books.
Full ReviewIt is enough for Aaron, but too hastily dispensed to be enough for the reader.
Full ReviewIf I have criticisms about the book they stem from the fact that the first sentence is so alluring, the rest of the novel is hard-pressed to live up to it.
Full ReviewTyler's treatment of Aaron's marriage is as dead as Dorothy herself. . .
Full ReviewOne might say that both he and Nandina become intermediates, rather than beginners, in the game of life, as rendered faultlessly, entertainingly and entirely believably by Anne Tyler.
Full ReviewMs. Tyler's powers of description are as sharp as ever.
Full ReviewEven as a ghost, Dorothy failed to engage me, much less haunt me.
Full ReviewThere are some stylistic hiccups. . . and Tyler telegraphs the ending from a mile away.
Full ReviewTyler’s writing is elegant and wry, and the novel is just the right length for its subject.
Full ReviewThis book has a great deal of heart to it.
Full ReviewIf you have never read Anne Tyler...The Beginner’s Goodbye would be a wonderful introduction to this award-winning novelist.
Full ReviewSome might consider the latest from Tyler . . .typically wise and charming, while others will dismiss it as cloying.
Full ReviewShe remains a graceful novelist, extremely skilled at observation of a particular kind of constipated life. But then, she ought to be; she’s written this book about 10 times.
Full ReviewI finished the story without a struggle but didn’t feel as satisfied as I had with some of her other novels.
Full ReviewIn this her 19th novel, Tyler has crafted an unusual and perfect jewel of a love story.
Full Review...rich and unexpected insights in an absolute charmer of a novel about grief, healing, and the transcendent power of love.
Full ReviewI admire Tyler’s loyalty and benevolence toward her characters, but in “The Beginner’s Goodbye” her lovingly constructed cosmos is in danger of becoming a snow globe: a hermetically sealed community in which the greatest peril is being caught in an artificial blizzard.
Full ReviewSmall as it is, and simple on a superficial level, this is one of the best books I've read about death and loss.
Full ReviewAnne Tyler’s The Beginner’s Goodbye is a moving, beautifully written portrait of grief, a story of loss and the desire to put off the goodbye as long as possible.
Full Review...ordinary lives can contain moments of great beauty, dignity and hope. The Beginner’s Goodbye has all three.
Full ReviewHolding a mirror to her characters' attempts to deal with their own grief and the grief of others, Tyler uses simple, elegant prose to manifest her particular brands of realism and humour.
Full ReviewBut when, near the end, Aaron announces, “I wanted the jolts and jogs of ordinary life. I wanted realness, even if it was flawed and pockmarked,” I know just how he feels.
Full ReviewThe Beginner's Goodbye is the purest distillation of an Anne Tyler novel imaginable...what redeems the novel is Tyler's typically brilliant use of details.
Full ReviewTyler’s new novel, “The Beginner’s Goodbye” follows that same pattern of introducing eccentric characters, but this time it felt to me like she crossed the line into contrivance.
Full ReviewThis is a compassionate exploration of loss as one of the defining experiences of life since, as Aaron comments, people who have not lost a loved one strike him as ‘not quite grown up’.
Full ReviewTyler is good on grief but this beginner’s guide, it must be said, lacks the richness, the wryness, the comic and the tragic notes of her best work.
Full ReviewShe united many seemingly disparate classic novel traits in this short novel, but it didn't feel whole to me, despite my enjoyment of so many of its parts.
Full Review...the story left me with a lot to think about, and the ending ultimately left me smiling. Highly Recommended - I Loved it!
Full ReviewAnne Tyler is back to fighting form with her bittersweet, charming new book about love, loss, and coming to terms with reality in relationships.
Full ReviewThis heartbreaking story is imbued with beauty and bittersweet melancholy but, this being an Anne Tyler novel, it is spiked with a sly sense of humour and wisdom.
Full ReviewIn The Beginner's Goodbye, Tyler again celebrates not experts but amateurs and novices — beginners still capable of learning. It's this capacity for change that makes Tyler's characters so sympathetic, and her books so satisfying.
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