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The true story of a nice Jewish boy who joins the Church of Scientology and leaves twelve years later to become the lovely lady she is today
Published: May 1, 2012 by Random House
Genre: Biographies & Memoirs, Gay & Lesbian. Non-fiction. 280 pages
This cri de coeur, which appears in a letter to her estranged daughter and grandchildren, suggests that Bornstein has made real sacrifices to follow her own advice, and can therefore dispense it with integrity.
Full ReviewUltimately Bornstein has written us a profoundly brave book that cracked me open, leaving me quivering and grateful for the stories I hadn’t known I’d needed to hear.
Full ReviewIt reminds readers that life is an incredible journey...And it’s a journey worth seeing through.
Full ReviewEmerging from all this is a portrait of a deeply thoughtful, generous and loving person who has the courage and expansiveness...to love those who hurt you, to see beyond the limits and damage, and to make peace with things no matter how difficult.
Full ReviewHer self-criticism humanizes the trans icon who has helped so many teen queens, baby butches, and seasoned gender warriors through difficult times.
Full ReviewThe book can be emotionally exhausting, but it’s disarmingly funny and a pleasure to read.
Full ReviewHighly recommended to all who are interested in religion, in family, in gender, in sexuality, or just in life itself. Bornstein truly has much to teach us all.
Full ReviewThis an amazing, intense, heartfelt read that's goes far beyond questions of gender and sexuality to examine, really, what it means to be human.
Full ReviewReading A Queer and Pleasant Danger was a pleasure for me...but more important I learned lessons about compassion, love, truth, service, and humour.
Full ReviewBornstein can be a challenging and confusing narrator at times, but is sympathetic in her universal struggle to be comfortable in her own skin and her attempt to come to peace with the paradox that is her life.
Full ReviewThis memoir was written largely as a way for Kate to reach out to her daughter...In allowing the public to read it, though, she continues to allow us, her queer family, to get to know her better...
Full ReviewIn her memoir she describes herself as a puppy dog and I think that is absolutely correct; she brings that level of joy and excitement to interpersonal interactions and onstage.
Full ReviewShe begins and ends her memoir with gentle pathos; she’s a creature of self-discovery and she attempted to find herself almost everywhere.
Full ReviewA Queer and Pleasant Danger is not for the faint-hearted, for reasons that become fairly evident (see: sadomasochism), but is ultimately uplifting, hopeful, even joyous–and always droll.
Full ReviewI had to read every single, blessed word. It was so engrossing, so interesting that I had to absorb all of it and I just couldn’t put it down.
Full ReviewI highly recommend this book as a testament to personal bravery and the desire to explore identity.
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